Understand yourself and understand others
But until you know yourself, strengths and weaknesses, you cannot succeed in any but the most superficial sense of the word. It's a quick, clear read that will appeal to high school and first-year college students just getting their feet wet with psychology. Unsurprisingly, I became an enthusiastic reader of the problem pages in magazines. It gives us better judgment and the clarity to understand and gain insight into those around us. That, of course, is easier said than done and requires a special quality that does not come naturally to us either: humility. To lose ourselves and embrace the infinite as one is true liberation. But we must make such an admission if we are to grow.
Hidden Self Things we know about ourselves that others do not know. Looking inward In the study, the researchers looked at data collected from two groups, of about 80 adults each, who all lived in Germany and were between ages 20 and There is nothing real besides the self and nothing remains to be obtained once we obtain that self.
I found, and continue to find, the intellectual challenge of engaging with another person's difficulties with the aim of helping them, entirely engrossing.
Having said that, Understanding Ourselves does have value. Relationships are easy until there is emotional turmoil.
Understanding yourself and others pdf
This is the part that you are able to discuss freely with others. It seems that for most participants, identifying the negative inner parts was what really required dedication and skill, he explained. We try to get our ego in the way. We are afraid what will happen if people know it all about us. The Known Self is what you and others see in you. At others' houses, an equally incomprehensible calmness prevailed. In , she co-founded the Women's Therapy Centre in London. Without reflection, however, we never learn the strengths we can leverage or the weaknesses we have to manage. Women often stayed in destructive relationships, found it hard to fight for sensitive medical care, or create the change in their domestic arrangements that many wanted. It's a quick, clear read that will appeal to high school and first-year college students just getting their feet wet with psychology. To lose ourselves and embrace the infinite as one is true liberation.
It encourages us to do more of the same and develop mastery in those areas where we naturally excel. As a young feminist in the s, when it felt as though all the western world was changing, the question of why people clung on to their "oppressions" was paramount.
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